quick travel update

simply put ? im not traveling. i just found out thismorning that the wake is at 2pm tomorrow and the funeral is Th. at 10;30 am. I don't see how I can pull it off, financial or otherwise. I'd only make the funeral anyway. when i looked at flights, rental car, food & hotel, it added up to well over a thousand. i wish the number didnt matter, but it does. to go for ONE day and rush right back home... i just cant do it. I want to, but I can't.